LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #13 - WE'RE ALL DIFFERENT

We're all different and unique but we are all connected - variety is essential or life would be pretty boring. #variety

DIFFERENCES ARE THE SPICE OF LIFE

Our cats are like chalk and cheese - one is fluffy, stocky and sleeps 23 hours a day, and the other is slinky, curious and always on the go. Each has her weaknesses and her strengths, and each has qualities that are endearing or annoying. If they were both the same it would be too much - their differences create balance.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #12 - DON'T LET OTHERS IGNORE YOU

Know who your friends are ~ don't let others ignore you because the sign of a strong friendship is that each of you participates and reciprocates. #friendship

WE ALL NEED ATTENTION

I loved the picture above of the kitten making sure she was getting attention. None of us like to feel ignored. So often we feel a part of things when we make the effort and keep in contact with everyone and what their doing, but what happens when we don't? What happens when we are too tired, or too stressed, or too sick, or too "whatever" to chase after people?

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #11 - DRESS FOR COMFORT

"There should be a law that there's a pajama day every few weeks." - Alyson Hannigan #quotes

WEAR WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY

This is a picture of my daughter's cat, Shadow, wearing her Winter pajamas. She is a Devon Rex chosen because she has very little hair (it's more like fluffy fur) and because of that she is good for people who are allergic to cats (my son-in-law). The only problem is when Winter comes she feels the cold - so the solution is to put her in something to make her warmer - and here she is in her PJ's feeling relaxed and snuggly.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #10 - LOVE AND LET GO

Parenting involves both loving and ultimately letting go - the aim is to rais independent adults. #detachment #parenting

DETACHMENT PARENTING

I've written a post about detachment parenting and I thought it would tie in well with my Life Lessons from my Cat Series because cats are very good examples of how to parent effectively. They are far removed from the "helicopter" parents of today and are much closer to my style of parenting. 

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #9 - LIVE IN THE MOMENT

You really don't need to control everything all the time - try living in the moment #letgo

BE TOTALLY PRESENT

Cats (and all animals really) have the innate ability of being totally present in the moment. They don't dwell on what happened yesterday, or what is going to happen next week - I don't think they even know what the concept of "next week" is! They just enjoy life as it comes along and react to it accordingly.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #8 - BE SELF CONTAINED

Stop depending on others for your self-worth ~ you are enough and it's time to believe in yourself. #selfworth #confidence

BEING "ENOUGH"

Whenever cats are mentioned in conversation, there is always reference to their independent natures. They are their own "people" and they are sufficient unto themselves. In all her books Brene Brown is very definite in asserting "I am enough" - and my cats would certainly agree with her!

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #7 - ENJOY SIMPLE PLEASURES

Instead of being caught up in consumerism, we need to re-learn the joy and beauty of simple pleasures #simple #minimal

CATS LOVE SIMPLE THINGS

When our children were little, one of their favourite books was called "My Cat Likes To Hide In Boxes" by Eve Sutton. Basically each page was about exciting cats from different countries and what they liked to do (the cat from Spain flew an aeroplane) but her cat liked to hide in boxes. That book pretty much sums up your average cat and their love of simple pleasures - boxes being top of their list - if there's a box it will be sat in (or slept in).

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #6 ~ BE LOYAL

Life Lesson from my Cat number 6 - always show loyalty and integrity in your friendships because it defines you. #inspiration #lifelesson

TRUSTING IN LOYALTY

Loyalty is usually associated with dogs (and apparently horses too - when you google it!) but I think cats are just as capable of feeling loyalty to their owners. Our Burmese cat is so friendly she sits at the end of our driveway and waits for people to walk past and pat her. She's even been known to follow them down the footpath when they decide to leave.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #5 ~ BE VOCAL WHEN YOU NEED TO

Lessons come from everywhere and this is life lesson #5 from my cat - speak your truth when you need to. #inspiration #lifelesson

SPEAK UP WHEN YOU NEED TO

When our cats get vocal we refer to it as "singing the song of their people". One does it to get your attention if she's feeling ignored, and the other does it at meal times to let you know it's 5pm and time her dinner was served. They don't usually walk around meowing all day long, instead both save their chorus for moments they consider important.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #4 ~ BE AFFECTIONATE BUT NOT NEEDY

There are life lessons that can be learned from cats - this is lesson #4 - learn to respect boundaries - be affectionate but not needy #inspiration #lifelesson

THERE'S A FINE LINE BETWEEN CLOSENESS AND NEEDINESS

Even cats need to learn lessons in life - we have two cats and neither of them has gotten this one quite right just yet. We have one who comes for short visits involving being patted briefly and on her terms - then a quick exit back into her own space, and the other who gets patted but the more pats she gets the more pats she wants - it's more, and more, and more until we are so over it all, we send her on her way posthaste. 

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #3 ~ AVOID UPSETS AND DRAMA

Life lesson learned from my cat include Lesson #3 - do what you can to lead a life free from upsets and drama #inspiration #lifelesson

LIGHT SUCKERS

There are people in this world who thrive on drama - we all know a few and we do our best to avoid them wherever possible. I've written a post a while back on people I refer to as Light Suckers - they just suck the joy and light from every encounter - their lives lurch from one crisis to the next and they almost seem to prefer it that way.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #2 ~ BE CURIOUS AND ADVENTUROUS

Cats have a lot to teach us - Lesson Number 2 is to always be curious and ready for adventure #inspiration #lifelesson

CHOOSING TO BE CURIOUS - DESPITE THE RISK

There is a well known expression - "curiosity killed the cat" - never the dog or the rabbit or any other animal - always the cat. This is because cats can't help themselves when it comes to sticking their noses into places that are new or interesting. They are the great supervisors of this world - nothing can happen without them having an active interest in it.

LIFE LESSON FROM MY CAT #1 - NAP OFTEN

Cats can teach us so many life lessons - the first is to take the time for a nap or two and recharge #inspiration #lifelesson

TAKE TIME TO NAP

Our fast paced, always busy lifestyle steals little pleasures away from us ~ one of these delights is the afternoon nap. I think the value of napping has become very under-rated. We are too busy rushing around and feeling guilty if we stop, and this takes away the pleasure of an afternoon nap. I'd like to see us rekindle the art of napping and appreciating it for all it offers.