tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post7902131547706735971..comments2024-03-28T08:54:28.654+08:00Comments on Cresting The Hill: making midlife the best of life #2 (family)Leannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-10818009585662181662015-07-01T11:52:09.984+08:002015-07-01T11:52:09.984+08:00It is really hard to watch your children strike ou...It is really hard to watch your children strike out on their own, but so rewarding when you see them make a success of it. As a mum I'd love them to live next door and be a bigger part of our lives, but that would be clipping their wings and not healthy for them (or so I keep reminding myself!)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-92078753593112639492015-07-01T00:39:27.952+08:002015-07-01T00:39:27.952+08:00Lana and I are in the same phase - and it is nice ...Lana and I are in the same phase - and it is nice to have you as our guide, letting us know that the trail ahead is not as steep and rocky as it seems! I am a strong advocate of my children living their own, independent lives - I just feel like it has all happened very quickly! Your are right however,I need to remember to celebrate these new adventures - not linger in the past.Susan https://www.blogger.com/profile/15294204009310379754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-62150764268819855692015-06-29T15:39:13.595+08:002015-06-29T15:39:13.595+08:00Hi Lana - I don't think we look forward to our...Hi Lana - I don't think we look forward to our babies leaving home, but they usually go gradually, so it gives you time to get used to it - and after a period of adjustment, you start to appreciate some of the nice bits about having your own space again. That being said, I am always excited when they come home for a visit and bring with them all that noise and the youthful vibes. :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-81379751221660142872015-06-29T13:27:06.721+08:002015-06-29T13:27:06.721+08:00I really appreciate this post Leanne. I have to a...I really appreciate this post Leanne. I have to admit I'm one of those not looking forward to the boys leaving. On an intellectual level I agree with you - I'm so proud of them & happy that they successful. I think maybe it's the fear of the unknown. I'm sure I'll look back on this time and realize how ridiculous I'm being :)!My New Happyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912544717011410371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-21167286591771931352015-06-29T08:36:17.356+08:002015-06-29T08:36:17.356+08:00Thanks Diane :)Thanks Diane :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-42976772703897451702015-06-29T01:41:54.794+08:002015-06-29T01:41:54.794+08:00Good stuff, indeed! You are so right to savour!Good stuff, indeed! You are so right to savour!Diane Stringam Tolleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09629946536985545457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-59552333529396251462015-06-28T13:24:20.934+08:002015-06-28T13:24:20.934+08:00Thanks Kathy - you're right about the concern ...Thanks Kathy - you're right about the concern - it never really stops but it certainly eases off a LOT when they become responsible adults and are making their own way in the world. Now I'm going to re-look at the photos to see the change in my smile :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-78103726350536896092015-06-28T13:23:04.778+08:002015-06-28T13:23:04.778+08:00Yes Rena, having the children leave the nest is a ...Yes Rena, having the children leave the nest is a much more positive end result than when your mum leaves - I love that you take so much pleasure in caring for her. I'm sure you and your husband manage to fit in some free time for each other too and that's what's so nice about no kids at home!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-61488118886260279402015-06-28T06:20:33.654+08:002015-06-28T06:20:33.654+08:00Hi Leanne! I think your photos say a lot. While ...Hi Leanne! I think your photos say a lot. While the babies might have been cute when they were small you can almost sense the concern on your faces in that early photos. In comparison, the photos of your grown children show both you and your husband with big smiles. You DO have a lot to be proud of and I think we all should celebrate the good times even though there are sure to be ups and downs along the way in any lifetime. ~KathyKathy @ SMART Living 365.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12392736262783641661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-30628887258001381222015-06-28T00:49:40.578+08:002015-06-28T00:49:40.578+08:00I never experienced those empty nest feelings eith...I never experienced those empty nest feelings either. I enjoyed that fact that it was just the hubby and I. We had fun and did what we wanted. Sadly it didn't last nearly long enough to my way of thinking because I have to take care of momma, but I know that won't be forever and while I look forward to having my life back I also know what will have to happen to get it so I'm in no hurry.Renahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12296781992150172086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-78970659228832902872015-06-27T19:35:55.002+08:002015-06-27T19:35:55.002+08:00Thanks Fran - whenever I tell my husband I miss th...Thanks Fran - whenever I tell my husband I miss the kids, he reminds me that creating independent adults was our aim and we've succeeded!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-47837299478902220602015-06-27T18:29:16.287+08:002015-06-27T18:29:16.287+08:00You're absolutely right, turning out young peo...You're absolutely right, turning out young people with the confidence to branch out on their own is what it's all about. 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