tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post2397386497462165679..comments2024-03-18T20:05:47.522+08:00Comments on Cresting The Hill: SPEAKING POSITIVITY INTO YOUR MARRIAGELeannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-9548839902423718152015-10-19T07:50:59.266+08:002015-10-19T07:50:59.266+08:00Thank you so much for sharing your post with us at...Thank you so much for sharing your post with us at the #AnythingGoes Link Party! See you next week.Sandy Sandmeyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12255326791620423141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-50493607611506125152015-10-13T17:08:22.753+08:002015-10-13T17:08:22.753+08:00Leanne, thank you very much for joining Tip Tuesda...Leanne, thank you very much for joining Tip Tuesday Link Party.<br /><br />It is a pleasure for me to inform you that your blog was the most clicked last week and that you will be featured next time!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04747514734378950219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-22911921806328031632015-10-09T22:25:22.359+08:002015-10-09T22:25:22.359+08:00yes - why would we tear down the one person we lov...yes - why would we tear down the one person we love the most! Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-67514204749984931332015-10-09T18:45:29.405+08:002015-10-09T18:45:29.405+08:00My husband subscribes to my blog so if I was so in...My husband subscribes to my blog so if I was so inclined, which thankfully I am not, I would have little chance of berating him there :-). Today, the online life seems fraught with negativity and vitriol. I see it often that people tear each other down. It makes sense to me to not tear down the one person in this world I can turn to in times of strife. Plus I love him :-)Sarah Coxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17975937733446006894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-85724175829611764802015-10-08T07:56:43.812+08:002015-10-08T07:56:43.812+08:00It's funny how most men don't read their p...It's funny how most men don't read their partner's blogs - nice that they trust us isn't it Debbie - and thanks again for hosting :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-21706862463903364632015-10-08T07:55:58.075+08:002015-10-08T07:55:58.075+08:00Me too Corinne - if you are each other's favou...Me too Corinne - if you are each other's favourite person then you need to behave like that and be kind to each other.Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-89713297024548301102015-10-08T07:54:50.144+08:002015-10-08T07:54:50.144+08:00You learnt a lot quicker than I did Mary - but I&#...You learnt a lot quicker than I did Mary - but I've listened to many "jokes" at husbands expenses to think that it's okay now. I'd rather say something nice (or nothing at all!)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-36715524677009713532015-10-08T01:12:54.288+08:002015-10-08T01:12:54.288+08:00I don't think my boyfriend reads (much) my blo...I don't think my boyfriend reads (much) my blog. But I'm not sure. We rarely talk about it (except when I asked him to share his recipe).<br />I think indeed that some people can have fun of things, but I also don't feel comfortable with this overexposure.<br />I prefer my private life "private".<br />Thanks for joining #tiptuesday.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04747514734378950219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-12829523684169696162015-10-08T00:25:49.812+08:002015-10-08T00:25:49.812+08:00My husband reads my blog from time to time and som...My husband reads my blog from time to time and sometimes I'll ask him to give me an opinion on something I've written before I publish it. If I mention him, then he gets to say whether it's okay for me to publish that. <br />I've learned too that sometimes those 'harmless' jokes are not so harmless especially when you use them in public. I hate to be the audience when a husband or wife is running down their spouse. It makes me cringe! Corinne Rodrigueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11142098428026084994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-54763926376817071152015-10-07T03:58:41.327+08:002015-10-07T03:58:41.327+08:00Leanne such truth to this post. I see too many co...Leanne such truth to this post. I see too many couples who tear each other down and then I wonder why they are even together. This was a big eye opener for me years ago when I saw a lovely young wife totally discredit her husband and I thought if she dislikes him so much what does that say about her? And I vowed back then (25 years ago) to not be that wife. Thanks for putting into words what I have always felt. Mary K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17696218067214163344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-66566208524111756132015-10-06T22:08:30.603+08:002015-10-06T22:08:30.603+08:00I think we all overstep the line occasionally Jami...I think we all overstep the line occasionally Jamie but doing our best to build into our marriage, rather than taking the other person down is what we're all aiming for.Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-74662316492087980032015-10-06T21:02:15.961+08:002015-10-06T21:02:15.961+08:00My hubby and I definitely tease each other, but we...My hubby and I definitely tease each other, but we have begun to learn where the limit lines are for each other after all of our years together. We try not to cross them. But I definitely need to feed my marriage more! Thanks for the food for thought.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01975142210467186932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-75746173107301830352015-10-06T16:14:10.536+08:002015-10-06T16:14:10.536+08:00Hi Lana - teasing and mocking are completely diffe...Hi Lana - teasing and mocking are completely different and you get to know the difference after awhile :) It looks like there are quite a few husbands who leave their wives to their blogging worlds - I think I like it better that way!<br />Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-13310807490103851742015-10-06T13:28:07.682+08:002015-10-06T13:28:07.682+08:00What a perfect post Leanne! I couldn't agree ...What a perfect post Leanne! I couldn't agree more. While my husband and I definitely tease each other, we would never purposely be hurtful or mean. And I would never write anything bad about him on my blog. By the way, he doesn't read mine either. If he had a blog, I would be so curious about what he was writing every day! But he figures it's my thing, and he just stays out of it!My New Happyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912544717011410371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-42777929067773892102015-10-06T08:50:33.934+08:002015-10-06T08:50:33.934+08:00I don't think a lot of men appreciate what a b...I don't think a lot of men appreciate what a blog offers to someone who likes to write and engage. I try to get my husband to read an occasional post so he understands it a bit better :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-85238796936213799162015-10-05T22:52:15.653+08:002015-10-05T22:52:15.653+08:00A lot of truth here. Personally, my husband not o...A lot of truth here. Personally, my husband not only doesn't read my blog he seems to feel threatened by it and isn't supportive at all. He never has been. Without it, I probably would be insane. To him it is a waste of time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564863484894692249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-11507575728379763452015-10-05T22:35:55.196+08:002015-10-05T22:35:55.196+08:00my pleasure Terri - I just wanted to put across th...my pleasure Terri - I just wanted to put across the other side of the story for those of us who are getting past the mocking stage :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-68803564888122639952015-10-05T22:35:13.634+08:002015-10-05T22:35:13.634+08:00I wondered if you were having a little rest Rena -...I wondered if you were having a little rest Rena - glad you're back on deck! I keep waiting for another Rena's World update :) Nice to find another husband who isn't a blog reader - we can join up with Joy (above)!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-59541449255878176722015-10-05T22:33:28.918+08:002015-10-05T22:33:28.918+08:00If my husband had a blog I'd read it to see wh...If my husband had a blog I'd read it to see what was going on in his head - obviously he doesn't need the extra help to know what I'm thinking Joy!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-13770563281098892902015-10-05T22:32:44.966+08:002015-10-05T22:32:44.966+08:00I'm just getting more "fragile" when...I'm just getting more "fragile" when it comes to being mocked and if I don't like it then I have to assume my husband doesn't either - we're good with being kinder now we're older :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-53942754364310294322015-10-05T21:58:42.304+08:002015-10-05T21:58:42.304+08:00So true, thank you for these encouraging words tod...So true, thank you for these encouraging words today. Terri Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03429170486784474135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-855603684522165172015-10-05T21:54:08.445+08:002015-10-05T21:54:08.445+08:00My husband has only read a post or two as well. He...My husband has only read a post or two as well. He doesn't even get on the computer period. I've been married for many years as well and we do make fun of each other at times. We never try to tear each other down though. We love each other completely and are each other's best friends, but that doesn't mean I won't laugh at him for doing something stupid! Some things work for some and some don't Each couple has to figure out what works for them. I've been absent for a while glad to be back! I've missed you!Renahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12296781992150172086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-64691708644364001612015-10-05T21:17:24.295+08:002015-10-05T21:17:24.295+08:00So true! My husband rarely reads my blog either, ...So true! My husband rarely reads my blog either, but again, I would never publicly make a joke or say anything unkind about him. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15093245957739790777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-5741312164860645072015-10-05T20:57:15.563+08:002015-10-05T20:57:15.563+08:00"In the past there would have been times when..."In the past there would have been times when we made jokes at the other's expense, but as time goes on, we are finding that we are kinder to each other..." <br /><br />Leanne, well said. I appreciate that others can "source" issues or flaws kindly, gently and even with the full appreciation and humor of their husbands, but I'm not sure I'd want those tables turned so I steer clear.Susan Bonifanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05889354888091500881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-89456313876815691322015-10-05T20:56:21.137+08:002015-10-05T20:56:21.137+08:00thanks so much - it becomes more true with every p...thanks so much - it becomes more true with every passing year!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.com