tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post5765486697083710413..comments2024-03-28T08:54:28.654+08:00Comments on Cresting The Hill: "damn you Steve" and the blame gameLeannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-77734108082053136682016-05-17T04:02:26.884+08:002016-05-17T04:02:26.884+08:00Just gotta love Brene Brown! Watched her interview...Just gotta love Brene Brown! Watched her interview yesterday on Creative Live. She is awesome and I enjoyed your post!V@https://www.blogger.com/profile/00115030243740204196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-7071686584761446932016-04-30T00:08:59.610+08:002016-04-30T00:08:59.610+08:00Ummmm my husband's name IS Steve. Damn you!Ummmm my husband's name IS Steve. Damn you!Anna Palmerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05579173318715598713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-33518578470164159202016-03-23T19:11:06.847+08:002016-03-23T19:11:06.847+08:00You have a double banger this week Leanne. This wi...You have a double banger this week Leanne. This will be two features on Friday. Wooot<br /><br />Blogger's Pit StopKathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16559092855185240910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-70511874193327007582016-03-22T23:42:56.632+08:002016-03-22T23:42:56.632+08:00This is a great one. Thanks for sharing on #Friday...This is a great one. Thanks for sharing on #FridayFrivolity. I hope you join us again next week.Audreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09219761342468705017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-90361168549533689522016-03-21T08:58:46.575+08:002016-03-21T08:58:46.575+08:00Hi Debbie - I think being a blamer is something a ...Hi Debbie - I think being a blamer is something a lot of us revert to when our world gets out of order and we want a reason for it. I'm working on it!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-348519852498334792016-03-21T08:57:51.133+08:002016-03-21T08:57:51.133+08:00Thanks Mackenzie - it was a real truth wrapped up ...Thanks Mackenzie - it was a real truth wrapped up with a smile (they're the best kind!)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-39807888225042949632016-03-21T08:57:19.223+08:002016-03-21T08:57:19.223+08:00It was a great little summing up of what we do wit...It was a great little summing up of what we do without even thinking about it (and how toxic it is to relationships) I think my husband was on to something!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-25206344749892830822016-03-21T08:56:22.783+08:002016-03-21T08:56:22.783+08:00I just love her - so practical and down to earth a...I just love her - so practical and down to earth and yet so relevant!Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-28113808325118014232016-03-20T17:01:32.312+08:002016-03-20T17:01:32.312+08:00Wow! I love TED Talks. They are small dosis of tru...Wow! I love TED Talks. They are small dosis of truth that opens our eyes. It took me ages to realize I was a blamer and even though I still go back to the bad habit sometimes, I'm now aware of it. It doesn't control me anymore.<br />Loved your choice, Leanne! It was a new video for me. Thanks for sharing it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04747514734378950219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-11109633992401875472016-03-20T16:03:04.302+08:002016-03-20T16:03:04.302+08:00Oh I loved this video clip, made me giggle and mak...Oh I loved this video clip, made me giggle and makes so much sense too, one of my fav posts all week! #Fridayreflections Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-79437553782237428222016-03-20T07:46:17.740+08:002016-03-20T07:46:17.740+08:00I love games but as we are learning here the Blame...I love games but as we are learning here the Blame game is so destructive. What an awesome little video, so simple and easy to watch with a powerful message. How intuitive of your husband to send that to you, so thank him from us too 'cause we are all enjoying the nudge to better relationships.<br />The Blogger's Pit StopKathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16559092855185240910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-71067090217133815142016-03-19T18:20:28.070+08:002016-03-19T18:20:28.070+08:00What an awesome clip! This is the first time I lis...What an awesome clip! This is the first time I listened to Brene and what s sensible piece this is. Many thanks for sharing!Parulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14933210393492294463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-15954527513031593082016-03-19T10:43:22.737+08:002016-03-19T10:43:22.737+08:00I just love her Brenda - she's becoming my new...I just love her Brenda - she's becoming my new best friend and mentor (I hope she doesn't mind!) I'm quite envious that you've heard her speak in person xLeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-18048113461531471812016-03-19T10:42:15.267+08:002016-03-19T10:42:15.267+08:00I'll have to add "root-cause-analysis&quo...I'll have to add "root-cause-analysis" to my midlife dictionary Adela! Anything to control a situation is a bonus for me and if it means not blaming someone else then it's win/win xLeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-16271081541119289752016-03-19T10:41:07.872+08:002016-03-19T10:41:07.872+08:00me too Liz - I'm working on it, but it's s...me too Liz - I'm working on it, but it's still my default response way too often xLeannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-54914871295715966202016-03-19T10:40:38.655+08:002016-03-19T10:40:38.655+08:00I know Wendy - it's a snapshot of our house at...I know Wendy - it's a snapshot of our house at times (my poor husband!)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-57023557099173887392016-03-19T10:40:05.727+08:002016-03-19T10:40:05.727+08:00She's very down to earth isn't she Liz - I...She's very down to earth isn't she Liz - I love that it's not all fluff and bubbles, but good solid advice.Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-47071538041895363342016-03-19T10:39:34.563+08:002016-03-19T10:39:34.563+08:00She is amazing Lori - there is another one on empa...She is amazing Lori - there is another one on empathy (something else I need to work on!) and a 5 min chat on boundaries that I put up on my fb page because it was so on the knocker correct.Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-1582936564954117702016-03-19T10:38:33.415+08:002016-03-19T10:38:33.415+08:00My husband says "there always has to be someo...My husband says "there always has to be someone to blame" as if that's a bad thing :) but forgiveness and taking responsibility are huge steps in reducing that Damn You Steve moment Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-90967615785209443712016-03-19T10:37:30.342+08:002016-03-19T10:37:30.342+08:00I think taking ownership of your actions and their...I think taking ownership of your actions and their consequences is a big step in reducing the need to blame Jodie - I still have a bit of work to do in that area :)Leannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623420015695351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-1893005862096205142016-03-19T09:44:12.262+08:002016-03-19T09:44:12.262+08:00Brene is amazing! I've been a fan before she w...Brene is amazing! I've been a fan before she was well known. She spoke at a breast cancer retreat I attended in Austin. Funny, poignant, the read deal. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15138140094568459194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-64250279171611317052016-03-19T04:17:49.354+08:002016-03-19T04:17:49.354+08:00Loved this video. I'm more of a root-cause-an...Loved this video. I'm more of a root-cause-analysis sort of person, asking Why? at least five times. If I can figure out why it can happen, I can prevent it from happening again. Much more controlling than blaming!Adelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05746906929850447156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-45211209171499805622016-03-19T01:00:32.767+08:002016-03-19T01:00:32.767+08:00Love this and love her. I'm guilty of the blam...Love this and love her. I'm guilty of the blame game way more than I want to admit!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10946432834254235907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-58178110382292292272016-03-18T23:17:33.498+08:002016-03-18T23:17:33.498+08:00I started off laughing, and then cringing as it be...I started off laughing, and then cringing as it became more and more relatable. Yep, the blame game is never short on players. Thanks for sharing this, Leanne! Now to Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878417421173080620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4722898771124083282.post-14257562908377691882016-03-18T23:05:24.290+08:002016-03-18T23:05:24.290+08:00Brene is so relatableBrene is so relatableLizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05168938644314394147noreply@blogger.com