BEING THE DAUGHTER OF A COLLECTOR

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1970 - with my two brothers and one of  my dad's cars

MY FAMILY

What do you do when you come from a family of collectors/hoarders and you are a minimalist married to a super tidy minimalist?

WHEN YOU WHISPER INTO THE HEART OF A CHILD

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USING MY TIME WELL

One of the best parts of reducing the hours I work is that I have more free time to do with as I please. For the last couple of months that free time has been spent on regaining a little bit of myself that I felt had gotten lost along the way. Now I feel ready to do a little more.

THERE ARE NO PERFECT PARENTS (OR CHILDREN)

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A QUOTE FROM MY DAUGHTER

My daughter sent me this quote the other day:

There are no perfect parents and there are no perfect children, but there are plenty of perfect moments along the way.

and my first response was - I should Pin that. My second response was......wait a minute - I should blog about that! Here's the quote and I hope it reminds you today that it's about the bigger picture - not those little moments where we feel we've failed.

I'VE NEVER MET A CHIP I DIDN'T LIKE

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WHAT'S YOUR WEAKNESS?

Everyone has an Archilles heel and mine is the love of chips. I LOOOOOVE chips! I could go to AA and confess to my inability to resist their salty, fatty goodness. But I wouldn't give them up.

my life as the AntiCraft - throwback post#2

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MY LACK OF CRAFTINESS

As a good Christian woman it is an embarrassment for me to have to confess that I loathe any type of craft. I can admire the dexterity and "creativity" of those who immerse themselves in the latest crafting fad, but I just cannot get inspired by padded tissue box covers, or scrap booking, or quilting, or any of the myriad of craft activities that others thrive on.

TOTALLY ADDICTED TO PINTEREST - I'M A PINAHOLIC!

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WHEN YOU REALIZE YOU'RE ADDICTED

A scary thing happened to me a while ago......without being aware it was happening, I became addicted to Pinterest! What started out as somewhere to collect a few apt quotes and pretty pictures (rather than filling up my facebook feed) has now proceeded to take over part of my life.

WHEN YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR A LONG TIME

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WHAT IS "LOVE"?

Sometimes I wonder quietly to myself - do we expect too much from love and marriage in the world we live in today? Have we put ourselves under a ton of pressure to be on top of our love game all the time for fear we may lose if we aren't always fervently full on?

STOP IT! LEARNING TO SAY "NO" MORE OFTEN

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JUST STOP IT!

There are so many things that I do out of obligation or habit or because I'm a little OCD and because I think "no-one else is going to do it". A lot of those things are necessary and part of the obligations of getting by in this world. However, some of them are self inflicted and I really need to tell myself "Stop It!!" when I go down that path.

LET'S HEAR IT FOR A DRAMA FREE LIFE

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SWIMMING IN OTHER PEOPLE'S DRAMA

I have spent many years surrounded by people and their drama. It sucks you in and you find yourself swimming in this constant stream of chaos where you never know when the next crisis is going to arise.

LIVING AN UNCLUTTERED LIFE

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MARIE KONDO 

I've read so many posts lately on the "amazing" discovery of de-cluttering houses and lives. There is the best selling book by Marie Kondo called "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing" that has taken the world by storm. You only have to do a search on "declutter" on Pinterest to find a million and one pins to do with getting rid of accumulated "stuff", purging and organizing what's left.

BEING BLESSED WITH A NEW COMMUNITY

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I'M NOT A LARGE GROUP PERSON

I have never been very good at women's groups and get-togethers. I always feel like the odd one out because I'm not really a girly girl. This might be the fall out from growing up with two brothers and a mother who wasn't very good at mother/daughter bonding.

CHANGES, CHANGES EVERYWHERE - AND THAT'S OKAY

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LIFE CHANGES

So much has changed in the last few years, the last few months and even the last few days - time doesn't stand still. Life is about moving forward through the changes and becoming richer in character as I navigate towards who I am becoming.

IS BRUNETTE OR BRONDE THE NEW MIDLIFE HAIR COLOUR?

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a new midlife choice - going from blonde to bronde 

MOVING ON FROM BLONDE

As you may have noticed in my pictures from Saturday's post, I have been various shades of blonde for my entire life, and it seemed best to stay that way into midlife because the blonde bits masked any random gray hairs that popped up out of the blue. Every six weeks or so I'd take myself off to the hairdresser for a top up and trim and off I'd go again into the big wide world. But things have taken a detour into a new direction....

BEGINNINGS ARE ALWAYS THE HARDEST

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STARTING A NEW JOB

I'm a couple of weeks into my new job and being a perfectionist (and a wee bit OCD) I'm struggling with the fact that I still have a long way to go before I truly get my head around all there is to learn.