HOW TO ACCESS THE RIGHT AGED CARE SUPPORT FOR SOMEONE YOU LOVE
Monday, 13 September 2021
INTRO
Recently I was approached by Kyra Snell to ask if I'd be interested in
collaborating together to share her story about a difficult experience she
had seeking care support for her grandmother, and how that led her to create
a How To Guide to show others how to tackle the Australian Aged Care system
and the services that are on offer if you know how to dig deeply enough to
find them.
It's not a topic we think of much because most of us aren't quite ready yet
to access help for ourselves, but we are often plunged into it unexpectedly
when a mother, father, mother-in-law, or other family member's health starts
to fail.
I've learned a lot from this collaboration, and the free guide she shares
at the end of the post is something I'm saving for when it's my turn to
navigate the system. I hope you find her story as interesting as I did. Now
let me hand you over to Kyra....
5 SUPER SIMPLE STEPS TO UNHURRIED LIVING IN MIDLIFE
Monday, 6 September 2021
WHEN LIFE USED TO BE HURRIED
The first half of my life was always lived in a hurry. My days were packed
to the brim with work, or stuff to do when I wasn't at work - you
know......cooking, housework, grocery shopping, socialising, volunteering,
church, hobbies, and all the appointments (hairdresser, dentist, doctor
etc). For a long time there was also all the "kid stuff" - school
activities, after-school activities, sports, friends, youth group, and all
the other responsibilities that come with being a good parent.
Back in those "good old days" there was rarely the opportunity to slow down
- because all those responsibilities needed to be done - and done well.
There was very little flexibility, and every day was packed full from when
the alarm went off in the morning, until I slid into bed at night. They were
great times, but always SO busy. Even after the kids left home and the
parenting work disappeared, life still continued at a galloping pace. I
loved living a busy life back then, but it's not how I wanted to
continue in the second half of my life. So what did I do to move from rushed
to relaxed, from hurried to unhurried?
GREAT CREATIVE PROJECTS TO TRY WHEN YOU'RE NOT VERY "ARTISTIC"
Monday, 30 August 2021
BEING CREATIVE WITHOUT AN ARTISTIC STREAK
I mentioned in last week's post that I've been wanting to try my hand at activities that use the right
side of my brain. Apparently right brain dominant people are more creative
and artistic, and left brained people are more logical and analytical. If
that's
the case, I definitely tend to be more left brained and now I have more time on my
hands, I thought it was my chance to try my hand at something a little bit
"arty".....But where do you start when you've never dabbled in that
area?
3 AREAS OF LIFE TO CULTIVATE FOR BALANCE AND GROWTH
Monday, 23 August 2021
CHOOSING 'CULTIVATE' AS MY #WOTY
Every January since I started blogging I've chosen a Word of the Year
instead of making New Year's resolutions. Previous words have been Release,
Embrace, Rise, Enough, More, Symphony, and for this year, I chose "Cultivate". I had mulled several words over in my head, but the idea of consciously
setting out to cultivate aspects of my life that would lead to me thriving
as I headed towards 60 just seemed to fit what I was looking for.
I originally came across the word in Brene Brown's "Daring Greatly" book and a pin I saw online that summed up the 10 areas of life we need
to cultivate to live Wholeheartedly. It got me thinking about what areas of
my life I wanted to grow more in, where I wanted to deepen my life, and
where I wanted to focus my energy.
"YEAH.....NO" - SAYING YES TO WHAT MATTERS AND NO TO THE REST
Monday, 16 August 2021
BEFORE I CHOSE TO SAY "YEAH.....NO"
If you're anything like me, you grew up in an era of trying to be all
things to all people. Somewhere along the line we had convinced ourselves
that we could do it all, and do it with a smile (well maybe, occasionally, with a long suffering sigh...) During the first 55 years of my life I
tried my hardest to be the good daughter, the great wife, the hard worker,
the hands on parent, the always available volunteer, the committed friend,
and so on and on it went. Tie it all together with a lot of self-judgement
and that was pretty much my life for a long time.
At the time those things were super important to me, and I thought I was
doing a great job of keeping all the balls in the air. It gave me a sense of
satisfaction to have said "Yes" to so many responsibilities and to have not
drowned under it all. But that was then and this is now.....
REFINANCING YOUR HOME LATER IN LIFE: HOW TO MAKE IT A SUCCESS
Monday, 9 August 2021
INTRO
Today I have an interesting collaborative post that gives some insight into
an area of retirement that I haven't covered previously here on the blog. My
husband and I have been very diligent throughout our working lives in
putting extra payments into our mortgage whenever possible, our goal was
to have it paid out well before the 25 year lifetime of the loan. We also
didn't move often, so that reduced buying and selling costs.
By the time we reached our 50's we were debt free and that made the
decision for me to retire early a LOT easier. The pressure of being locked
into a mortgage (especially one that's at a higher interest rate than the
current ones on offer) can be very disheartening. So, today's post discusses
an option that might be of interest if you still have those monthly mortgage
payments hanging over your head.
WHOLEHEARTED LIVING - CULTIVATING A SENSE OF BELONGING
Monday, 2 August 2021
INTRO
Today I have the next guest in my series on Cultivating Wholehearted
Living - thriving in the second half of life. Leslie is a fashion blogger, a
Bucket List blogger, a book blogger, a home styling blogger, and writes
about all of these things over at
Once Upon A Time And Happily Ever After. She's writing today about a topic that has been in the back of my mind
for several months - and I'm sure others have struggled with some of the
same thoughts and feelings. So, on that note, I'll hand it over to Leslie
from here....
WHAT ARE YOU CULTIVATING IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE?
Monday, 26 July 2021
COMFORT ZONES AND RISK
There's a well known saying that goes:
A comfort zone is a beautiful place,but nothing ever grows there
All the super busy, ambitious go-getters immediately nod their heads
because it's a fact that you have to step out of your comfort zone if you want to take a leap forward into the unknown or into
something bigger and riskier than you usually experience.
But......
HOW I BRIGHTENED MY SMILE WITHOUT BREAKING THE BUDGET
Monday, 19 July 2021
BRIGHTENING A DULL SMILE
Have you noticed that your teeth have gotten duller and dingier as you've
gotten older? I've certainly found that mine have been getting darker and
less attractive since I hit Midlife and I wasn't sure whether I was just
being vain or whether I wanted to get serious and do something about it. I
used to be a Dental Therapist/Hygienist in my younger days, and I also
worked for an orthodontist for many years. Teeth are something that I'm very
aware of - and I also know how much it can cost to get a fabulous
smile.....A LOT!!
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