HOW I USED TO DEAL WITH LIFE
For as long as I can remember, I've always been someone who wants everyone to be happy, to be doing well, and to be at peace with
me. I HATE it when I feel like I've upset someone, or that they have an
issue with me. Conflict causes me a lot of stress and that inner gut
churning that is miserable. I then proceed to overthink everything, to try
to smooth the waters, to apologize, or to change to make the other person more
comfortable.
Well.... that was how I always used to be, but over the last few years I've
been growing a bit of a backbone, I've discovered boundaries, and I've worked on my self-worth. A few things have brought that into focus
and that's what I'm writing about today....