THE BEGINNING OF A NEW YEAR
Well, Christmas and New Year's Day have been and gone and it's time to settle
into the year ahead. I feel like each year somehow is a little better than
the last. I'm not sure if it's Midlife that gives me such contentment, or
whether I've just found my groove and I'm genuinely happy with the life I
have. Whatever it is, I'm grateful every single day for this age and
stage.
That being said, it's the beginning of 2025 and time to choose a new Word
of the Year. I've tried New Year's Resolutions, and Bucket Lists, or ignoring it all and just getting on with another year, but none of those
really resonated with me until I came across the idea of choosing a Word
that feels right and helps guide me through the year ahead.
PREVIOUS WORDS
I chose my first WOTY in 2015 and I've been inspired every year since to
choose one, and then check in with myself on how it's going around July, and
then again in December. So far, I've had no regrets with my choices, they seem to be prompted by my subconscious telling me what I need to work on, and they give me a little push towards becoming a better version of
myself as I handle life's ups and downs.
If you're remotely interested in my previous choices, I've listed them here with
links in case they intrigue you enough to want to know more - and if not,
feel free to skim ahead to this year's Word.
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2015 -
Release
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2016 -
Embrace
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2017 -
Enough
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2018 -
Rise
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2019 -
More
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2020 -
Symphony
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2021 -
Cultivate
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2022 -
Fabulous
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2023 -
Live Lightly
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2024 -
Equanimity
MY WORD OF THE YEAR FOR 2025
This coming year feels like a happy one to me. I finally feel settled
within myself (that's where Equanimity came into play), I feel like I've
shed a lot of the cares and worries that I carried around with me constantly
(Living Lightly), and I'm just so grateful and settled and happy right
now.
I tossed around several Words before settling on this year's - I thought
about Gratitude, Grace, Bloom, Harmony, Well-Being, and a few more obscure
ones. Each resonated with me and they reflect that feeling of contentment
and balance that I have right now. But while I was mulling it all over, I
found myself coming back to the little quote I have in the sidebar of my
blog "Live imperfectly with great delight" and something just clicked.
LIVING WITH GREAT DELIGHT
So, for this year I'm choosing ~ DELIGHT ~
as my Word of the Year - I want to count my blessings, look for the
positives, focus on the little
glimmers of joy, and just take delight in the moments. Life will never be perfect, I'll
never be perfect, and at last I'm realizing that perfection isn't the goal -
contentment and gratitude and love are the goals - and I get there by
delighting in this good life I've been given.
I don't want to waste my time on regrets, or ruminations, or churning over
old hurts or disappointments. All those belong in the rearview mirror - it's
a new day, a new year, a new clean slate to write on. I'm going to seek the
delights, share the delights, and savour all those little bright
moments.
So, here's to a delightful year ahead. My plan is to end each month with
Three Delights - well, that's the plan.....who knows if it will happen or
not, but that's where I'm aiming. I figure if I look for little delights, it'll trigger the Yellow Car/Baader-Meinhof
Phenomen where you notice more occurances when you're looking for them....
The frequency illusion (also known as the Baader–Meinhof phenomenon) is a cognitive bias in which a person notices a specific concept, word, or product more frequently after recently becoming aware of it.
WHAT ABOUT YOU?
Are you choosing a Word of the Year? If so, I'd love you to share it in the
comments. If you don't choose a Word, do you have something that inspires
you as you head into the new year? I hope your year ahead is a delight and
that whatever I share here in the months ahead brings some positivity and
encouragement into your day. Here's to a Delightful 2025!
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Thank you for sharing yourself through your blog - your posts are a joy to read.I look forward to reading about the delights that 2025 brings your way. Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your very kind words Alice - it always makes my heart happy to find that what I share brings joy to someone else. I'm looking forward to a lovely 2025 and I hope yours is too. :)
DeleteI love that word - it sounds like it is... if that makes sense. Happy New Year Leanne!
ReplyDeleteYes, it does sound delightful - and I like that it includes "light" in the mix - something I always look for - nothing like a bit of sunshine and joy. :)
DeleteLeanne,
ReplyDeleteI love your WOTY, Delight!! Great Choice....I chose not only a Word but a theme and a motto for the year..I just posted about it...Stop by if you get a chance...
Hugs,
Deb
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Hi Debbie - I just popped over and really enjoyed reading your post and catching up on all that's been happening for you over Christmas too. Hope is a lovely choice of Word for your year after the sadness of 2024.
DeleteWhat a delight that was to read. You will be aceing this one Leanne!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Denyse - it just resonated with me when I chose it - like it was waiting for me to be ready to be delighted with my year. :)
DeleteGreat word, Leanne. It just seems to attract a feeling of joy. My word is Presence. I want to be present in every moment with appreciation of the gift it brings.
ReplyDeleteHi Judith - I like Presence - it has a feeling of connection and investment in where you are and who you're with. I'm hoping that Delight will keep bringing me back to remembering how blessed I am and to choose joy always.
DeleteMy daughter sometimes uses the word 'delightful' and to me it is such a lovely, gentle word, Leanne. Nice choice for the year ahead x
ReplyDeleteThanks Sue - I love the sound of the word too - it has a smile tied into it whenever I think of it or use it.
DeleteHi, Leanne - What an inspiring post! I love the word 'delight' and I especially admire how you've tied it into embracing imperfection and savoring life's little moments. Thank you so much for joining us for this linkup. Here’s to a truly delightful 2025, 💛
ReplyDeleteHi Donna - I'm learning that life is often about how we choose to respond - rather than what's actually happening. We can be in similar situations and handle it completely differently based on how we view what's happening. I'm choosing to be proactively delighted - maybe not with everything.....but with all that I can as often as I can. :)
DeleteThat is a perfect word for you, Leanne! You're so inspiring with how you've become settled in yourself and living your life your way. I'm sure you'll have a delightful year!
ReplyDeleteI love that quote in your sidebar. How you relate delight with imperfection resonates so much with me - my own word of the year is courage, and much of it is in the context of having the courage to show up despite being imperfect!
Hi Susanne - you're journey towards strength and fitness is always so inspiring. I think having the courage to own your progress and to work towards your goals sounds like the perfect Word for your 2025..... building on 2024's achievements.
DeleteThat sounds like such a fun word and is sure to bring you joy.. and well, delight!
ReplyDeleteThanks Jo - I loved the sound of it, the thought of it, and the outworkings of it - and that makes it a pretty delightful WOTY for me :)
DeleteWelcome back, Leanne. So glad to read your first post for 2025. I chose Release as WOTY ,not realizing that you had chosen that word for 2015. I also added Rest so it's Rest and Release as I am in need of both. Hope 2025 is a better year. Your WOTY expresses what I think of you- a delightful person. All the best to you in 2025! 😊
ReplyDeleteHi Yvonne - I chose Release as my first every WOTY because I really needed to let go of my need to be in control of everything and to have everything work out the way I thought it should - it was a recipe for disappointment to live like that. I think it was the beginning of a significant shift in my approach to life - and then choosing Embrace the following year where I was more intentional about what I allowed into my world, that was a shift too.
DeleteI hope 2025 brings you little bursts of delight here and there and reminds you about how good life can truly be. I think we have to make room in our lives for the good stuff or the bad things tend to crowd in and steal our joy. xx
What a perfect word...actually I love the whole quote. Because I think it serves as a reminder to pay attention to commitments and projects and use the quote as a comparison stick to see where they land. Not to encourage walking away from a commitment made or a project or event promised. But to serve as a reminder to think twice about taking something on that provides you with less than a sense of delight. BUT...even when the actual 'thing' lands with a thud against the comparison, it does not mean that the sense of HAVING DONE the right thing will be a winner on the 'living imperfectly with great delight' sea;e. Okay, I'm not actually sure where all that came from. My original intention was just to share my recent introduction and understanding of the meaning of the word 'glimmers', and how much I realize I truly do try and pay attention to all the glimmers that are ALL around me, ALL the time. (EXAMPLE: 7:00 am, pitch dark, driving to the pool to meet my friends and exercise. The radio is playing Christmas carols, and I am watching the snow fall down through the light of the street lights. Simple joy.) That's been a big boost!! So glad you are back - I open your email every Monday morning! Best wishes for joy, peace and lots of delights in the new year!!
ReplyDeleteHi Kristine - I know exactly what you were getting at - it's about loosening our expectations and the drive to do everything and do it perfectly - it doesn't mean we stop and become dull commitment phobes, but that we're more intentional about what we choose to invest our energy into. I heard about glimmers a couple of years ago from Pat (from Retirementtransition) and I loved the idea too - pausing to recognize those little sparks of joy and small blessings that are all around us and often go unnoticed.
DeleteThe negativity bias that we're all susceptible to often steals those moments and draws us to all the 'what's wrong with the world' stuff - I'm curating my life towards what I can influence and away from all the noise that the world throws at me - truth is often lost in click-bait.....give me snowflakes in the streetlights any day! And thank you for opening your email every Monday - I appreciate it. :)
Your WOTY choice just makes me smile! I had Joy one year, and my quote was Find Joy in Each Day. It truly made a difference for me! I love your plan to share three delights...and looking forward to hearing what they are.
ReplyDeleteHi Pat - thank you so much for being able to offer words of encouragement for a light word choice in amongst the load you're carrying atm. I never want to make others feel like my life is all 'peace, love, and vegetables' - I know it's tough and even tougher for many others who pop in here, but I do want to share the little bright sparks and thoughts - we all need that in the dark days don't we? Here's to a brighter 2025. :)
DeleteThank you for including a chronological list of your words of the year, Leanne. As I read them, I could envision the ebb and flow of your past 10 years. DELIGHT is such a joyous word, and yes, I definitely think having in your mind that you are looking for 3 delights will cause you to notice many little delights that may have slipped by without notice. That's the main benefit of my Three Good Things journal. Throughout the day, I find myself watching for those good things I want to include on my list.
ReplyDeleteHi Christie - I think I need to get back to my gratitude jar where I kept little moments of goodness to remember my blessings. And yes, I can see how the words I've chosen have changed with me over the years too - I think it's something we all notice when we look back, and it's why I love this concept so much. I'm hoping that choosing such a lovely, joyfilled word this year will guide me to appreciating all the little blessings that are part of my life every day. Happy 2025!
DeleteGreat word. It's positive and it implies fun and joy!
ReplyDeleteHi Deb - thanks so much for popping in - I often wonder how you're going and await a post updating us. You're certainly nailing the book reviews btw. Have a great 2025.
DeleteDelight! I love your word Leanne. Just seeing it written and saying it makes me feel happy. Best wishes for a year full of delight.
ReplyDeleteHi Jennifer - thanks so much. It just seemed to emerge and call to me when I got serious about drilling down to what I want my life to continue to grow into. Happiness is such a treat and something to always appreciate and to delight in - and that's me goal!
DeleteHi Leanne, it's great to have you join the linkup with your delightful WOTY! It's a great word and looking for the glimmers is important in our full lives. It's a happy joyful word and you should have a great year with it. My WOTY is listen and it will be interesting to see if I cannot only listen but also be proactive with my listening.
ReplyDeleteHi Deb - I really liked your word choice too - and (as I mentioned on your post) I like the idea of intentionally investing in being present with others - being 'interested' rather than worrying about being 'interesting'. I'm looking forward to the year ahead and just relaxing into it and allowing the small moments of joy to have more focus.
Delete"life is often about how we choose to respond" a phrase rooted in stoicism. 2025 WOTY - STOIC. Not the stiff-upper-lip definition but based in the philosophy of stoicism & its 4 virtues: wisdom, justice (fairness), courage, moderation. Lofty & all encompassing with many opportunities to practice daily. Happy New Year! I am a fan of your posts.
ReplyDeleteHi Mona - I really like that definition of Stoic....I think sometimes words get taken over by something they were never intended to be, and we lose them in the process. I heard a definition of Grace the other day - which was 'forgiveness balanced with justice' and it's been swirling around inside my head ever since. I'm going to ponder your four virtues some more because they're all so important to live well. Thanks for sharing it with me. :)
DeleteHappy New Year, Leanne. I love your WOTY. It is so appropriate for how you are feeling about your life, now. What you said, in this post really resonated with me. Through my morning pages, I've worked out that I also want to let go of old hurts and disappointments, and move forward, in the new year, with positivity, and gratefulness. I wish for you, continued success with your blog. l'm really looking forward to reading your weekly posts in the coming year. Christina Daggett ♥️
ReplyDeleteHi Christina - I think when we carry deep emotional hurt in our hearts, we learn ways to live with it and deal with it - but it never truly heals because we always hope for resolution. I hope the year ahead brings you comfort and peace in your new home, and that there's heapings of joy and contentment in the days ahead. x
DeleteI so appreciate how you have become so happily content in recent years with this stage of life. Love that you are not looking back - I think I have made big progress in that department, at least as far as the reasons I retired. This is a grand chapter of life and even though I have goals for getting in better shape, eating healthier, using my time more wisely, I really like who I am better now than anytime I can remember.
ReplyDeleteHave never heard of frequency-illusion although I have experienced it and wondered why!! When I wanted so desperately to be pregnant and wasn't, I saw pregnant women everywhere. When I was praying I wasn't pregnant and was, I saw pregnant women everywhere. One of my WOTY found me in the same way...I kept seeing it everywhere...believe, believe, believe.
You know that I considered delight, too. I will be anxious to see what all delights you this year. Truly believe in the power of glimmers of joy...I've always called them/thought of them as little miracles. Finding a penny is a biggie for me!! Hope you will share some of those with us too.
Hi Leslie - I love that "grand chapter of life" and "I really like who I am better now than anytime I can remember" because they both resonate with how I feel about this stage of life too. I read others writing about resenting being "retired" and how they want to reinvent themselves using the same scale they did when they were working every day. I have none of that - I'm just so ridiculously grateful to live life on my own terms and timetable - I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like to be so driven to "succeed" still.
DeleteI'm finding that "Delight" is popping up on my radar more now I've chosen it - a bit like your "Believe" did. I've done a lot of soul searching and working on who I am and what I want my true "self" to look like - this year I want to just settle into that and be the best version of myself while being grateful for all the good stuff. I'll be sharing my journey as the year goes on and following yours too. x
My word of the year is Joy and my motto is Live Beautifully. Looking forward to experiencing these!
ReplyDeleteHi Gwenyth - I think we're on a similar path for the year ahead - where we just want to sink into living with gratitude and focusing on all the good that comes our way. It's going to be a lovely year. :)
DeleteHappy New Year, Leanne, The word “delight” makes me smile, likely for many of the reasons you have outlined here. Knowing you, Leanne, you will find more than three delights each week,, let alone each month. The frequency illusion has been apparent in my life many times, especially when I was pregnant and all of a sudden everyone is pregnant. 😁 I find I lean towards mantras every few months. I look forward to you continuing to share your positivity, encouragement, and all that is delightful in 2025. xx 💕Erica
ReplyDeleteHi Erica - Happy New Year to you too my friend. I hope your year ahead is a delightful one and that you keep popping in to say hello. I do find that whatever WOTY I'm drawn to seems to come into its own and encourage me during that particular year. Last year I needed to find my centre, and this year I feel like I need to relax my expectations and just find pleasure in the simple blessings that are always around me. Life really is good when we pause long enough to appreciate it. :) xx
DeleteLeanne, I need to share this with you. Your 2024 WOTY - equanimity - appeared repeatedly in a book I'm currently reading: The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully by Frank Ostaseski. I have a notion from reading your blog that this book would appeal to you.
ReplyDeleteHi Mona - thank you so much for thinking of me - Equanimity ended up being such a great guide for me last year when I had to look inward to find what really mattered and to make some changes and strengthen some boundaries. I'll definitely look into seeing if I can get my hands on that book - it sounds like an excellent read. :)
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