Friday, 30 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ the Second Half of Life

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ The second half of life is even better than you expected


If that message hasn't sunk in by now, let me repeat it - Midlife absolutely Rocks! I'm not sure why a lot of us thought it would be a dull and gray time of life where we slowly descended into old age and incontinence, but we were so wrong! Midlife is an amazing stage where we start seeing the fruits cultivated through the first half of our lives.

Wednesday, 28 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Discovering Midlife Blogging

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Discovering a whole new world of Midlife Bloggers


How can a whole world exist and a person have no idea about it? A couple of years ago I was going quietly about my fairly mundane life - the wheels were falling off all over the place and I was hanging on by the skin of my teeth. Midlife didn't look all that fabulous to me and I was wondering how to make sense of it all. I had always kept a journal, but I thought it might be nice to put some thoughts down somewhere to get them out of my head and into some sort of order.

Monday, 26 September 2016


MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Travel now or dream of travel later - midlife is the time for travelling


Midlife is the time to go to all those places you have on your bucket list. You might not get to all of them straight away, but it's a great time to make a start and tick a few off. Living in Australia means that most overseas travel can involve long haul flights and lot of money. You can't pop across the Channel for a weekend in France or jump on a plane for a few days in sunny California. It takes a considerable amount of planning to launch off to one of these (very attractive) destinations.

Friday, 23 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Grandbabies

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ getting to see your children's children is so special


What is there not to love about grandbabies???? And you can't have grandbabies without being in midlife, so one of the biggest reasons Midlife Rocks is the joy of sharing in the blessing of the next generation. To see your children's children and to be allowed to participate in loving them and reveling in their cuteness is beyond words. To see our son and his wife become great parents who are raising a happy and sun-shiny baby fills my heart with gratitude.

Wednesday, 21 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Watching Your Kids Marry

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Watching Your Kids Marry - learning to let go and watch them make their own lives


It's always a joy watching your children reach different milestones. We think back fondly to when they started walking and talking when they were really little, and the days they started school, got their drivers licence, moved out of home, graduated, began their career ....and the list goes on.

Monday, 19 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Redefining Your Relationship

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ it's a great time for reconnecting and redefining your relationship with your partner


It's so easy to take your relationship for granted when you've been married forever. I know I was guilty of this and nearly lost it all in the process. You live in the same house, you see each other every day but you need to wake up and make midlife a time where you find the spark and the connection again. Once those kids are out the door and the distractions are gone, you need to make your relationship a priority.

Friday, 16 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ A Hiatus in Care-Giving

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ having a break in between caring for your children and then caring for your parents


I know that there are a lot of midlife women out there who are still caring for little children or for teenagers, and there are others who have the responsibility of aged parents who need extra time, attention and a whole lot of care. But for my husband and myself, we are in a very pleasant stage of hiatus where our children have left our care and are doing well, and our parents are still managing to be self-sufficient (most of the time!)

Wednesday, 14 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ True Friendship

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ finding those meaningful friendships that you treasure


I talk about friendship quite regularly on this blog (you can see a couple of my other posts HERE and HERE) and I think that's because it is one of the most valuable commodities we have in life - and because there is the freedom to choose what to do with the extra time I have, I choose to invest it in those people who are special to me and hold a place in my heart.

Monday, 12 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Who Cares What They Think?

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ There has to come a time when you say to yourself "Who Cares What They Think?"


The culmination of a lot of things happened for me when I reached midlife. One of the biggest of these was to stop my need for everything to be perfect. I had perfectionism on a pedestal it did not deserve to be on. Perfectionism sucks big time! I was so busy trying to have my Brady Bunch life that I almost missed out on having the life I really deserved.

Friday, 9 September 2016

MIDLIFE ROCKS! ~ Finding The Real Me

Midlife Rocks! ~ Finding who you really are - having confidence in yourself and liking yourself


One of the biggest lessons midlife has taught me over the last few years is how empowering authenticity is. Once I gave up trying to be what I thought others expected me to be, my life opened up and the sense of relief was palpable. It took a weight off my shoulders that I didn't even realize I was carrying. No expectations is so liberating!