A FAMOUS LES BROWN QUOTE
I think all Midlifers have come across this quote from Les Brown at some point:You are never too old to set another goal, or to dream a new dream.
But there are so many other ideas of his that I'd never heard, and they make so much sense as I navigate this second half of life. I thought I'd share some of them here today, and hopefully a few might ring true for you too...
10 OTHER THOUGHTS THAT STRUCK A CHORD FOR ME
1. Shut down the drama in your life.
It is unhealthy. Arguing and fighting creates dis-ease.
2. Stay away from negative, selfish, energy-draining relationships.
They do not honour you, or even worse - use you, abuse you, and take
advantage of your kindness. Do not buy into their negativity or guilt
trips.
Don't let someone else's opinion of you become your reality.
3. Resolve to live in peace.
Commit to living your life where you are right now with what you have right now. Live in the present.4. Do not attempt to change others.
There is enough work to do on yourself.5. Develop relationships where all parties can grow.
Create an atmosphere of mutual respect, love, and
appreciation.
6. Free yourself from inner chaos.
By meditation, relaxation, and stillness. What you create inside of
yourself will manifest outside yourself. Forgive yourself for your
faults and your mistakes and move on.
7. Create a sanctuary
Where you can live in peace, relax your mind, revive your spirit, and
renew your purpose.
8. Embrace the possibility
That everything that you have gone through can be used to make you
gentler, kinder, more compassionate, and loving with yourself and with
others.
9. Begin to make courageous choices every day
That say you deserve to be happy. At any time, you have the power to
begin again and to rebuild a new future and identity for yourself.
10. Do something every day
Which reminds you of your wholeness and of your power to heal your life.
Remember you have something special. What legacy are you leaving for your
friends and family?
AND A FINAL BOOSTER TO FINISH WITH
This is my decade. Nothing is going to stop me!
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The one that resonates with me is the one about understanding you can't change others. Mostly though the reminder that you're never too old, is a good one.
ReplyDeleteLearning we can't change others, focusing on being our best selves, and remembering there's still so much to learn and do - they all make me even happier to be at this age and stage - we're not too old and it's never too late :)
DeleteI love the 10 thoughts. I strive to apply them in my life. Thank you for sharing! I look forward to your post on Monday morning. Warmth on a cold dreary day. You made my day!
ReplyDeleteHi Yvonne - that was such a lovely compliment. I really do try to find the sunshine in life - and to remind myself to appreciate how good life is and how blessed we are (despite the hiccups life throws at us at times)...
DeleteSorry, Leanne. I was writing my comment, and touched the wrong key. I was trying to correct my spelling. 😊 Anyway, I wanted to say how much I enjoyed reading these quotes from Les Brown. Reading them helped me realize how much I've grown, and how much I've been able to overcome, in dealing with my relationships with other people. I feel really good about myself now, and my choices. Life is really good right now, and I'll tell you more when we get settled in our new home. Thank you for sharing this very inspiring post. Have a happy Easter.♥️
ReplyDeleteHi Christina - I really look forward to hearing what made you move back to the US and where you've chosen to live - and what home you bought. You certainly live an interesting life! I also realized how far I've come in my relationships and approach to life - I used to read a lot of Marc and Angel posts, now I feel like they aren't as applicable - because I've done the work and I'm living the results. Still a long way to go, but it's nice to feel like we're still growing and thriving in our 60's isn't it? x
DeleteLeanne, I was intrigued with the quotes about staying away from energy-draining relationships and aligning yourself with people you can learn from, who want more out of life. With a number of friend/ acquaintances leaving the area (their choice post hurricane), I'm looking to expand my friend base again. I am leaning in on a couple of things to see about finding those who are not energy-draining, who leave me feeling lifted up and inspired. Good ways to think about it!
ReplyDeleteHi Pat - after the years I spent with a colleague who literally sucked the life force out of me over time, I strongly believe that the people we associate ourselves with can make or break our emotional and spiritual health (and that impacts on our physical wellbeing too). I'm VERY careful of who I allow into my inner world these days, and I feel a lot more settled and at peace as a result. I'm also so much better at saying "no" - and that has lightened my load significantly. Onward and upward my friend!
DeleteHi, Leanne - I found myself nodding in agreement with each idea that you shared here. Very wise words!
ReplyDeleteHi Donna - I'm always amazed when I find a new author/poet/writer who shares wise words - the more I soak that into myself, the more it waters what I'm trying to grow in this second half of life. I'm glad you enjoyed his words too. xx
DeleteHi Leanne,
ReplyDeleteThese are brilliant thoughts! So uplifting. I'm a big fan of quotes but had not heard of Les Brown before (I'm about to go and look him up!). Thanks for introducing me to his wisdom. Wishing you a wonderful Easter. Sue x
Hi Sue - Happy Easter to you too. I'm always pleased when I discover a new voice speaking about things that are relevant to my age and stage - then I get to share them here on the blog - win/win.
DeleteSuch good advice, Leanne. If we could remember and put into practice all 10 points, life would be pretty much perfect...for ourselves and those around us.
ReplyDeleteI thought so too Christie - I love that it's the small, simple thoughts, actions, expectations, and activities that make a big difference over time. You don't have to go big to have a great life.
DeleteI love the one about creating a sanctuary. It is so possible In small ways. Just closing one's eyes and breathing deeply for even a few moments.
ReplyDeleteI'm a huge fan of sanctuary now Judith - whether it's in my head, in my home, or in my relationships. I like the feeling of peace and being safe in a messy, tumultuous world.
DeleteDo something every day!! I love it. I often feel like we are trying to do too much every day but today I have enjoyed being home, reading blogs, catching up with all my online pals. My home is my safe place and sanctuary. I love being here. PC gets antsy and needs to go running around, shopping, the gym, just being out but that exhausts me anymore.
ReplyDeleteGlad to be reminded that we are never too old. Indeed!! I still have so many dreams, goals and to-dos. But, thanks to Christie, I am learning to slow down and give myself some grave when I don't tick everything off my list. In fact, I haven't even looked at the to-do list in 2 weeks. Don't tell!!
Hi Leslie - I think we often need to take a step back and decide what meaningful activity really means to us personally. It doesn't always mean being busy and having a million things ticked off a to-do list. Sometimes it can be resting, being at home, sharing time with those we love, dabbling in little pastimes - all small, but all enriching if we give ourselves to them instead of always rushing to get out and about.
DeleteThese are all great Leanne, you've certainly got a fab collection going and they're all so applicable to our age group. Thanks. Enjoy your Easter. xx
ReplyDeleteHi Deb - I thought they were a great reflection of a lot of the stuff I've been figuring out over the last decade or so. And thanks for the Easter wishes - it's been lovely and I'm sure you're enjoying the family catch up like we have with ours. x
DeleteHappy Easter Leanne and Ross and Family! I’m old enough to remember “Les Brown and His Band of Reknown”…maybe that’s him too. I grew up in the 1950s and 60s very influenced by Dad’s love of Music! Made me smile reading these today. Denyse x
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